Healthy Habits

Written by Jenny Tebboth, August 2026

It is almost a year now since we launched the ‘All In’ service with the aim of worshipping in creative ways across the entire age spectrum of the church family so that we learn and grow together. 

Highlights for me have been the use of art for reflection and the opportunity to give and receive prayer as a way of responding to what God has been saying to us.  It has been a joy to see whole families serving in different ways; on the AV, welcoming, leading prayers and giving the notices by news reel!

Starting in September we have a new series for the All In service which will take us right through to next July.  It is based on a short passage from Acts which give us Luke’s portrait of the very first community, of followers of Jesus and the way they behaved toward each other which was like nothing anyone had seen before and stood out in that society like a light on a hill!

‘They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles.  All the believers were together and had everything in common.  They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.   Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and generous hearts, praising God and enjoying the favour of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. Acts 2: 42-47

We are using the book ‘Holy Habits’ by Andrew Roberts as our guide.  He selects ten characteristics of the early church which, as we practice them will build a healthy and thriving community of faith which has an impact on the communities we live in.  We have decided to call them HEALTHY HABITS to stress the life-giving nature of each of them.  All of them can be practiced equally by all of us of whatever age or culture.

The first great North African theologian and lawyer Tertullian imagined outsiders looking at Christians and saying, “Look . . . how they love one another; and how they are ready to die for each other.” 

He contrasted this way of living with what he observed in his own society at the time; people who often hated one another and were even ready to kill one another.

Month by month we will focus on one of the characteristics described in Acts; work out how to apply them in ways that are contemporary and fitting to our context.  Then we will use the following weeks to apply them at home or at work.  Our aim is that we all grow deeper in faith – not only in understanding but also in the way we live so that we become gradually, as Jesus taught us ‘the light of the world’ and the ‘salt of the earth’.  A high calling indeed but one that can be nurtured through practicing what Jesus taught and living in imitation of him.

We have linked some of the practices with events in the church calendar.  For example, in October, ‘sharing resources’ is linked to our celebration of harvest.  The Sunday on ‘Prayer’ is adjacent to the week of prayer between Ascension and Pentecost.  ‘Eating together’ in July 2027 would ideally be followed by lunch all together after the service.  Our useful space in the North aisle makes this an opportunity not to be missed!
Most Sundays we focus on our own personal faith and life; but this series will encourage us to focus as well on the faith and life of our church community.  The way of living we will try out month by month nurtures a discipleship that will spill out into the week.  It will shape the way we are at home with our families, at work or school as well as in our church family and as individuals.  It is a way of life that, when lived faithfully day by day, will encourage others to join the adventure of following Jesus because it is a life-giving way to live.

First Aid Courses at St Mark’s in 2026

Since the end of 2024 we’ve had an Automated Emergency Defibrillator (AED) on the outside wall of St Mark’s House, Green Tiles Lane, Denham Green which is next to St Mark’s Hall.

We are delighted to announce the return of First Aid Courses for the community. The cost for participation is only £10.

VENUE: St Mark’s Church Hall. Tile House Lane, Denham Green, UB9 5HT.

Click here for a map…

DATES:

FEB 28, 10am-1pm: Paediatric / Children’s First Aid
Sign up here…

MAR 28, 10am-1pm: First time attendees course
Sign up here…

  • Recognise if someone’s heart has stopped
  • Learn CPR and how to use a defibrillator to help them
  • Learn to recognise strokes 
  • Learn how to deal with someone choking
  • How to respond to a diabetic emergency
  • Supporting an unconscious person
  • Techniques for managing emergencies specific to infants and children (Feb 28 only)

To book your training place, please click on the links above or contact the Church Office: 01895 832771

This is a dangerous moment for Christians: Tim Farron on Charlie Kirk

“Christians should not fit easily into any package of beliefs that does not find its source in the Bible.”
Tim Farron MP

How should we respond to the killing of Charlie Kirk?

Here is an excellent article by Christian MP Tim Farron…

From Christoph: Holy Week – So What?

(Isenheim Altar Piece by Matthias Grünewald)

Dear friends,

A few days ago was Palm Sunday, the beginning of Holy Week. In a world that is increasingly losing its grounding in the biblical story, many people wonder what Holy Week is all about. So here is a brief explanation – may it inspire us to make the Holy Week journey a priority and invite others to experience it!
(What follows is from an article by James Emery White.)

“Maundy Thursday denotes when Jesus washed the disciples’ feet during what is known as the Last Supper on the night He was betrayed. The word Maundy comes from the Latin word for “command.” When Jesus washed their feet, He said: “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another” (John 13:34). It’s why some churches actually have a feet-washing ceremony or service on Maundy Thursday.”

Please join us for our Maundy Thursday Holy Communion at St Mary’s, starting at 7.30pm. We won’t offer a foot washing, but the washing of your hands as you come in, to remind us of Jesus’ beautiful act of service and example. At the end of the service the front of the church will be stripped bare to signify the desolation of Jesus as he was arrested and led away, and to prepare us for Good Friday.

“Good Friday is the day we mark the anniversary of when Jesus was crucified. I know, the word “good” is a misnomer.
Or is it?
Sin is not good. Suffering is not good. But what Jesus did for us, what His death accomplished on our behalf—that was good. Good because He took on our sins, and then hung in our place, paying the price for our sins so that we can be forgiven.”

Please join us for “An Hour at the Cross” on Good Friday at St Mary’s, starting at 10.30am (click here for a live stream of this service…). We will read the account of Jesus’ suffering, sing hymns and listen to choir pieces reflecting on the significance of Jesus’ death. As part of the service, a cross will be carried to the front of the church and set up there. I will be reflecting with you on the life and work of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, who died at the hands of his Nazi executioners 80 years ago.

This is a reflective service, not designed for children, but there will be a “Children’s Hour at the Cross” at the same time in our Vestry, helping children to understand what happened on Good Friday.

“And then, of course, comes Easter Sunday when we celebrate the resurrection of Jesus—a day that so altered human history we are still talking about it and marking it 2,000 years later.
Each day is rich with meaning, significance and spiritual admonishment.
On Palm Sunday the crowds shouted ‘Hosanna!’ but just a few days later they cried ‘Crucify!’ Not willing to succumb to a celebrity culture, Jesus made it clear what the demands of following Him would entail. That’s what changed ‘Hosanna’ into ‘crucify.’ People were confronted with the weight and consequence of God. They had to choose: a tame God or a real God.
And now it plays out again, not in human history, but rather in our lives.
Every day.
Welcome to Holy Week.”

On Easter Sunday we will have a 9am Holy Communion service.

Then, at 10am our big Easter Egg Hunt for children is starting – all around St Mary’s Church. Don’t be late as most eggs will probably have been found by 10.15am.

This is followed by the Easter Day Family Service at 10.30am, featuring our Kids’ Choir. As part of the service all ages will celebrate Holy Communion together. (Click here for a live stream of this service…)

You are invited to bring fresh flowers to our Easter services, to turn the bare cross from Good Friday into a living cross, representing new life in Jesus.

A Life-Saving Defibrillator for Denham Green

New Defibrillator in Denham Green and Free Emergency First Aid Training

Denham Parish Church are delighted to report that there is a new Automated Emergency Defibrillator (AED) on the outside wall of St Mark’s House, Green Tiles Lane, Denham Green which is next to St Mark’s Hall. The defibrillator, along with training, has been purchased as a joint venture with the charity AEDdonate, The Community Board of Denham, Gerrards Cross and the Chalfonts (Buckinghamshire Council) and Denham Parish Church.

The AED will serve as a vital device for the local community and allow a rapid response to anyone nearby who has a sudden cardiac arrest. The device is also registered with our local Ambulance Trust for use in an emergency.

Free training on how to use the AED defibrillator and also in CPR and other emergency first aid will be held at St Mark’s Hall, Green Tiles Lane, Denham Green UB9 5HT.

  • Would you know how to recognise if someone’s heart has stopped?
  • Do you want to learn CPR and how to use a defibrillator to help them?
  • Learn how to deal with someone choking, adults, children and babies
  • How to recognise strokes using FAST test
  • How do you support a person having a diabetic emergency?
  • Supporting an unconscious person.

Final opportunity to join a training course:

Friday 9th February 10am-1pm. Click here to book your place…

To book your free training place, please click on the links above or contact the Church Office: 01895 832771

Praying Together: How should we respond to Israel and Gaza?

As we follow the harrowing news about conflict in Israel and Gaza, our friends from LICC are giving us helpful pointers in how we should respond:

https://licc.org.uk/resources/israel-and-gaza-how-should-we-respond-blog/

 

Understanding the deep symbolism of the coronation service

To many modern eyes the coronation service which is rooted in the Bible and centuries of history looks strange and is “like seeing a dinosaur still alive in a Zoo.” Tom Holland on Seen&Unseen
Read more or listen to the podcast:
“The United Kingdom is the only country which still marks the accession of a new monarch with a coronation.”
Find out more about the symbols of the coronation:

The Future of Denham Village Fayre

Many people have asked whether the Fayre will be back this year.

Please read this page to find out more…

Or download it as a PDF…

Remembering Mike and Pam Dymott

Today, 14 February, is the funeral of Pam Dymott. To thank God for her and her husband Mike and to remember them, you can download an article here from 2020 about their 60th wedding anniversary.

Click here or on the photo below to download the article…

How to disagree well

On Sunday, 19 February, we will be thinking about Jesus’ difficult teaching on loving our enemies (Matthew 5.43-48).

Disagreeing well is getting harder in the age of social media. Here are some helpful principles:

  • Talk face to face as full human beings whenever possible. Try to build a relationship
  • Acknowledge differences. Stand up for what you believe but treat the other person’s view with respect.
  • You may win an argument but lose a friend! Be willing to say, “I don’t know the answer.” Our confidence is in the love of Jesus, not our perfect arguments.
  • Learn to listen well. Make sure you understand the other person’s viewpoint.
  • Jesus didn’t say “Go and sock it to them!” but “Love your enemies”. Remember that God loves this person and that Jesus died for them.

Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect. 1 Peter 3:15

This post is based on a conversation between Justin Brierley and Cris Rogers. You can watch it here: